I had a vow renewal in Kauai – we used Pastor Harold Kilborn – wonderful man. Native Hawaiian. He’s very wonderful and reasonable – he’ll even blow the conch shell for you! His site is

Hi Ed,

I got married on the beach in Maui. My husband and I were the only ones there and it was so simple and wonderful. The only thing that would have been better would have been to have a few easy going family members there also. Email if you have questions, maybe I can help with some of your specific questions. Some things to think about, how many people will be attending? Are you planning any group activities before or after the wedding? Gifts for family? Anyways best of luck.